Deadly Consequences

As the facts have come in surrounding the shooting death of former NFL star quarterback Steve McNair, the story becomes even more troubling. The official word is murder suicide committed by his 20 year old mistress Sahel Kazemi. McNair left behind a wife and four sons ages 5 to 17. Rich and famous men having affairs with young women is not new. However this is the first one that I can recall ending this way. Married men all over the world are re-thinking their "arrangements" I'm sure, although I'm not so sure it will change their behavior. Men can be so hypnotized by the "cat" that even if we knew we stood a chance of getting taken out, some would still take the risk. No one knows what was going on in McNair's marriage, nor is it important now. What we do know is the effects of his choices will have long lingering consequences-specifically for his children. Kazemi's fatal flaw was buying into the lie that many women do: he will leave his wife to be with you. This is the biggest lesson of all for women who put themselves into these situations-you are # 2 and very rarely will you ever be #1.

In addition to mounting financial pressure, Allegedly Kazemi became outraged after learning that she was not the only mistress. What's this? you mean a rich and famous man has more than one women in his life? This kind of naivete is what causes great pain for many mistresses. You are not the greatest, you're just the latest. Now you are # 2, if you ever become #1, eventually someone will take you're old slot. McNair and Kazemi met in a restaurant where she worked as a server. Less she thinks she was the hottest server in America he's met others. Men with money and fame have many options when it comes to women- that's just a painful fact that women who choose to date professional athletes/and or wealthy men should accept. On the other hand, married men should evaluate themselves and the consequences of extra marital affairs- the stakes are too high to ignore.

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